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- Ukuluma kwemidlwane
- Inja yami iluma yonke into, kujwayelekile yini?
- Ukuphatha kanjani ukulunywa yinja
Ukufika komdlwane umzuzwana womzwelo nobumnene obukhulu, noma kunjalo, umndeni wesintu ngokushesha uthola ukuthi ukufundisa nokukhulisa inja akulula njengoba kungabonakala.
Imidlwane idinga ukunakekelwa okuningi futhi ihlangabezane nezidingo zayo kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba akumele sikhohlwe ukuthi ifinyelela endaweni exakayo kubo lapho behlukaniswa isigubhukane nonina nabafowabo. Kepha yiziphi izindlela zokuziphatha okufanele sizivumele futhi yiziphi okungavunyelwe? Kule ndatshana kaPeritoAnimal ungathola ukuthi ngabe kujwayelekile ukuthi inja ilume kakhulu.
Ukuluma kwemidlwane
Imidlwane iluma kakhulu, futhi yini enye, ijwayele ukuluma yonke into, kepha kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele futhi ngokwengeziwe kuyadingeka ngentuthuko yalo efanele. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi bahlakulele lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "umlomo omnandi", okusho ukuthi banamandla okuluma ngaphandle kokulimaza esigabeni sabo sokukhula. Uma sikuvimba lokhu kuziphatha, inja yethu ingahle ihlupheke ngokungaziphathi kokuhlola esikhathini esizayo, okuzomthinta kabi.
Ukulunywa yinja kuyindlela hlangana futhi uhlole imvelo ebazungezile, ngoba nabo basebenzisa umuzwa wokuthinta ngomlomo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenxa yamandla amakhulu amidlwane anayo, lesi sidingo sokuhlola indawo esikuyo sinkulu kakhulu futhi ukuluma kuyindlela eyinhloko yokwanelisa ilukuluku labo.
Elinye iqiniso okungafanele sikhohlwe ukulibheka, ukuthi imidlwane inamazinyo ezingane okumele ashintshwe ngamazinyo ahlala njalo kuze kube yilapho le nqubo ingakaqedwa, uzizwe ungakhululekile, engakhululeka ngokuluma.
Inja yami iluma yonke into, kujwayelekile yini?
Kubalulekile ukukugcizelela lokho kuze kube amasonto amathathu okuphila kumele sivumele inja yethu ukuba ilume noma yini eyifunayo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ushiye izicathulo noma izinto eziyigugu lapho ungafinyelela khona, kunalokho, kufanele ube nazo amathoyizi akho ukuluma (futhi kucaciselwe imidlwane), futhi noma ngabe kufanele simvumele ukuthi asithinte, usezosazi futhi uyahlola, kuyinto enhle leyo kuye.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi lapho uphuma endlini inja inganakiwe, kubalulekile ukuyishiya epaki yezinja. Ngale ndlela uzoyivimba ukuthi ingalumi zonke izinto ezitholakala zizungeze indlu.
Khumbula ukuthi yize umdlwane wakho uchitha usuku lonke uluma, ekuqaleni asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka, ukuluma kuyinto edingeka kakhulu kumdlwane, njengokulala, yingakho ukulala kwezinja kubonakala ngokuhlala ingxenye enkulu yosuku. Kumele ukhathazeke uma inja yakho ikuluma kanzima noma uma iluma ngolaka noma iliphi ilungu lomndeni, noma ngabe lingumuntu noma elinye isilwane.
Kwezinye izimo, yize lokhu kungukuziphatha okujwayelekile, kubalulekile ukusetha imingcele ethile ukuze kuthi lapho umdlwane ukhula, angayichazi kabi inhloso yethu yokumvumela ukuthi ahlole okuzungezile ngamazinyo akhe.
Ukuphatha kanjani ukulunywa yinja
Okulandelayo sikubonisa okunye imihlahlandlela eyisisekelo ukuze le ndlela ejwayelekile yomdlwane iphathwe ngendlela enempilo futhi ingabangeli izinkinga ekuziphatheni kwayo kwesikhathi esizayo:
- Ukuqala ngesisekelo lapho umdlwane udinga ukubamba khona, kungcono ukumnikeza amathoyizi aklanyelwe le njongo futhi akwenze kucace ukuthi yilokhu angakuluma, umbongelele noma nini lapho ewasebenzisa.
- Kusukela emasontweni amathathu ubudala kuya phambili, njalo lapho inja isiluma sinika iskhwishikhwishi bese sihamba, singayinaki inja umzuzu. Njengoba ezofuna ukudlala nathi, uzoqonda kancane kancane ukuthi liyini izinga lokulunywa elamukelekayo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho sihamba kufanele sifake umyalo othi, "dedela" noma "uyeke" ozosisiza ekulaleleni okuyisisekelo kwenja kamuva.
- Gwema ukumincisa inja ngokweqile, lokhu kungaholela ekulungeni okuqinile nokungalawuleki. Ungadlala ukuluma naye kepha njalo ngendlela enokuthula nenokuthula.
- Lapho inja ikuqonda imingcele futhi ingakulumi esikwenqabelayo, kubalulekile ukuqinisa leli lungelo. Singasebenzisa ukudla, amagama anobungani ngisho nothando.
- Vimbela izingane ekudlaleni nenja ukuluma, kufanele zihlanganyele njalo nethoyizi eligwema izingozi.
Yize kuyinto ejwayelekile futhi edingekayo ukuthi umdlwane wakho uchithe isikhathi esiningi uluma, lesi seluleko esilula sizosiza ukukhula komdlwane wakho kwenzeke ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
