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- Yini engenzeka uma ungahlanganyeli ikati lakho?
- ukuzihlanganisa nabantu
- ukuzihlanganisa nezinye izilwane
- Ukukhathazeka Ngokwehlukana Emakati
Ukufika kwelungu lomndeni elisha njalo kuyisizathu sokujabula, noma kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuthola ikati, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi lidinga ukunakekelwa nesikhathi sokufunda. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, kufanele sinikele isikhathi kuye ukuze simenze azihlanganise kahle ukuze akhule ngokulinganisela futhi ajabule. Ukuzijabulisa kwekati kuqukethe thuthukisa ukuzethemba kwesilwane ukuze ujwayele ubukhona nobudlelwano nabanye abantu nezilwane, ngaphandle kokwesaba noma ukuzizwa ungakhululekile.
Ikati elinobudlelwano obuhle nabantu lizokhula lijabule futhi cishe libe nothando, uthando futhi lihloniphe. Ngakho-ke, kule ndatshana kaPeritoAnimal sifuna ukukufundisa ukuthi ungahlangana kanjani nekati lekati ukuze ubudlelwano nomlingani wakho omusha buthuthuke ngendlela enempilo futhi ejabulisayo.
Yini engenzeka uma ungahlanganyeli ikati lakho?
Uma ungazange uhlanganyele ikati lakho ngoba lincane, lingakhombisa izimo zengqondo ezingezinhle, ngokuya ngeminyaka, okungaba nzima ukuzixazulula. Uma ikati lakho lingahlali kahle lingakhombisa ethukile, engazethembi noma enolaka, ngisho nokunwaya noma ukuluma noma ubani osondela.
Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wazi ukuthi ungahlangana kanjani nekati kusukela usanda kufika ekhaya lakho, ngale ndlela uzogwema izinkinga futhi ukuhlala ndawonye kuzoba mnandi futhi kube nokuthula.
ukuzihlanganisa nabantu
Ngokuya ngendawo lapho izinyane lekati lazalelwa khona, kungenzeka ukuthi lalithintana nabanye abantu, lapho-ke kuzoba lula ngaye ukuxhumana nabantu angabazi. Isikhathi esibucayi samakati, okungukuthi, isikhathi lapho bafunda khona kalula izindlela ezithile zokuziphatha kokuhlangenwe nakho abanakho, kuphakathi kwamaviki amabili kuya kwayisikhombisa[1].
Noma kunjalo, kuzofanele umlungiselele isikhala sayo uqobo, lapho uzizwa uvikelekile futhi ongaphendukela kuyo uma uzizwa ukhononda. Ukuze ajwayele wena, kuzodingeka uchithe isikhathi esiningi naye, umphathaphathe, udlale naye, futhi uhlale ukhuluma ngezwi elipholile elizolile. Ngale ndlela uzokwakha isibopho nekati lakho futhi uzojwayela ukubhekana nabantu.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ujwayele ubukhona babantu ongabazi, ngakho-ke ungacela abangani bakho nomndeni wakho ukuthi bakuvakashele ukuze umdlwane ujwayele. Kungenzeka angakhulumi ekuqaleni, kepha mnike ikhefu, lapho eqala ukuzethemba uzohleka eza kuye. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungamphoqi ukuba abe nokuxhumana uma ungafuni, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kungaphikisana futhi kuzoba nomphumela ophambene kulokho ohlose ukukwenza. Kungcono ukumheha usebenzisa amagama anobungani, amathoyizi ahlukahlukene nokuphatha.
Uma usebenza nezingane, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwenze kucace ukuthi lokhu akuyona into yokudlala nokuthi kufanele ubekezele. Izingane zizofuna ukudlala naye futhi zimgone kaninginingi, kepha kufanele zilandele izinyathelo ezifanayo nezabantu abadala. Kufanele bavumele ikati lisondele lodwa futhi babheke izingane ukuthi zidlale ngokucophelela ngaphandle kokuzilimaza.
ukuzihlanganisa nezinye izilwane
Ikati kungenzeka ukuthi lalinobudlelwano nonina nabafowabo, kepha kusamele lijwayele ukuba khona kwezinye izilwane. Imidlwane ivame ukuba nobudlelwano kakhulu kunabantu abadala futhi ihlala ifuna imidlalo, ngakho-ke lesi sigaba silula kunokuzijabulisa nekati lapho selikhulile.
Uma ikati lakho lingavikelekile noma linamahloni, ikesi lokuthwala lingahamba ibanga elide ekumjwayeliseni nephunga lelungu lakubo elidala. Kumele ulawule esinye isilwane ukuze singabi sibhimbi kakhulu futhi singesabisi ikati. Kancane kancane, inja mayijwayele iphunga nobukhona besinye isilwane futhi kancane kancane isondele.
Ukukhathazeka Ngokwehlukana Emakati
Ukujwayeza ikati lakho kubantu uzodinga ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi naye, noma kunjalo, angazizwa encike kuye yakho bese uqala ukuzwa ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana. Kulokhu, kufanele kancane kancane umjwayele ukuba yedwa.
Okubalulekile ukuthi ikati lakho sikhule kahle socialized, singesabi ukuba khona kwabanye abantu noma izilwane kodwa sizimele. Ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukudala ikati elijabule, elinempilo futhi elilinganiselayo.
