Indawo oyithandayo yenja yakho endlini yonke umbhede wakhe. Njengoba umthengela umbhede omuhle kakhulu kunowakho, uyaphikelela ngokulala embhedeni wakho. Isizathu silula: usuvele umvumele ukuthi alale ngaphezu kokukodwa futhi kuyisikhala esivame ukuhogela njengomngani wakho omkhulu womuntu, ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuhlale ufuna ukuba lapho.
Thanda fundisa inja ukulala embhedeni wayo? Isixazululo ngombono silula kakhulu, asimvumeli agibele embhedeni ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Kodwa-ke, ezikhathini eziningi asikwazi ukumelana nezintelezi zenja yethu nokubuka kwayo okungenakuphikiswa futhi simvumele alale nathi embhedeni wethu.
Ukufundisa umdlwane wakho ukulala embhedeni wakho kungathatha amasonto. Kepha uma ubekezela futhi ume uqinile, uzophumelela futhi ubuyise isikhala sakho. Qhubeka ufunde le ndatshana yePeritoAnimal futhi ufunde ukuthi ungayifundisa kanjani injana yakho ukulala embhedeni wayo.
Izinyathelo okufanele zilandelwe: 1
Ngaphambi kokuqala ukufundisa inja yakho ukulala embhedeni wayo, kubalulekile ukuthola lo mqondo engqondweni. Okusho ukuthi, kusukela ngesikhathi uqala ukuqeqeshwa, kufanele gcina futhi ulandele imithetho ngaso sonke isikhathi, akukho okwehlukile.
Uma ngezikhathi ezithile umvumela, uzofuna umbhede wakho ube ngumbhede wakhe futhi uma umcela ukuthi awushiye, uzomdida kuphela, okungaba yinkinga ukuqedela le nqubo yokufunda. Umndeni wonke kumele uyazi imithetho emisha futhi kufanele uyilandele kuleyo ncwadi.
bala ku umbhede onethezekile futhi omuhle ngenja yakho. Lokhu kufanele kube yindawo yakhe yokuphumula, lapho ezizwa ephephile futhi ekhululekile. Kufanele kube kukhulu ngokwanele ukuthi umdlwane wakho ulunge. Uma umbhede uvulekile kakhulu, inja yakho ingazizwa ingakhululekile futhi uma incane kakhulu, ingakhululeki.
Ungalokothi uthethise umdlwane wakho lapho elele embhedeni wakho, uma wenza kanjalo uzohlanganisa ukuthi ukuba embhedeni wakho kungaholela ekujezisweni. Ngokuphambene nalokho, noma nini lapho uzithola ulapho, kufanele uyiqinise ngokuthola umklomelo, ukuphululwa noma igama elinomusa.
2 Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, kuzofanele ufundise umdlwane wakho ukuthi umbone umbhede futhi umkhuthaze ukuthi awusebenzise. kumele ukhethe igama elingeke lishintshe, kodwa futhi ungakhetha umushwana. Isibonelo, "asilale" noma nje "umbhede". Izikhathi ezimbalwa zokuqala, okuwukuphela kwento umdlwane wakho okufanele uyenze ukumbheka. Njalo qondisa ukunaka kwakho kulesi sikhala bese uyahamba ezinye izinto ezinhle embhedeni ukukuhlobanisa nokuthile okuhle.
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala kufanele uklomelise umdlwane wakho ngamazwi anomusa, ama-caresses nokudla okulula kwezinja, ngokuba nje kombhede wakho noma ukuhamba phezu kwawo. Ngawo kanye umzuzu owenzayo, mnike okumnandi bese uthi "kuhle kakhulu". Zama ukumenza alale noma ugxilise ukunaka kwakhe kuye bese umnika okwelashwa izikhathi eziningana ngosuku uze umbone eya phambili. Kubalulekile ungalokothi ukuphoqe, ngaphandle kwalokho ungachaza umbhede ngendlela engemihle.
Lapho ufundisa, hlala ulungele umbhede nakho konke ukwelashwa okudingekayo. Gudluza umbhede kancane, bese uwubeka phansi bese ubheka inja yakho njengoba usho igama elithi "umbhede". Ukuhambisa umbhede kuzodonsa ukunaka kwakho, ngaphezu kokuletha ukuguquguquka ngoba uzocabanga ukuthi ngumdlalo. Lapho umbeka phansi mkhuthaze ukuba alale phansi noma ahlale kuwo bese umnika umklomelo wakho.
3 hambisa umbhede uye izindawo ezahlukahlukene endlini, ngenkathi uqeqeshwa, kwenza umdlwane wakho ugxile kakhulu embhedeni hhayi lapho ekhona. Lokhu kuzovimbela, ngokwesiko, isilwane sakho sizama ukukhuphukela emibhedeni noma kosofa. Uma wenza kanjalo, ungamthethisi, umqondise ngesibambiso embhedeni wakhe bese unikela lapho.
Ungafundisa umdlwane wakho ukuthi ulale phansi bese umtshela ukuthi alale phansi embhedeni ukuze aqonde ukuthi futhi yindawo yokuphumula nokuthi ufuna alale phansi lapho.
Kufanele uhambise umbhede noma kunini lapho ufuna khona. Lezi zindawo akudingeki ukuthi zibe seceleni kwakho, okungenani ekugcineni koqeqesho, ngakho-ke kufanele uzame ukwenza umdlwane wakho uzimele kancane ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula.
4 Lapho usumkhuthazile ukuthi asebenzise umbhede wakho ngokuphatha futhi njengoba uthuthuka, zama nje ukusho igama olikhethile futhi ukunciphisa ukunikezwa komklomelo, kodwa ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuqinisa ngamazwi.
Uma esembhedeni wakhe ngesikhathi sokuphumula ebusuku, uma ubona ukuthi yena ngifuna ukuvuka embhedeni uye embhedeni wakho, amtshele ngokuqinile "cha" bese embuyisela embhedeni wakhe. Mnike umuthi wokuqinisa isimilo sakhe esihle noma umnikeze ukuphulula ukuze alale aphumule. Khumbula ukuqinisa izinqubo kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Khumbula ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi inja ngeke ifune ukusebenzisa umbhede wakho, isibonelo ukushisa, kulezi zimo akufanele umthethise noma umgwebe.
Emini Ungawuvali umnyango. Isilwanyane sakho sizozwa ukuthi singafika singene ekamelweni lakho noma kunini lapho sifuna khona futhi sisondele kuwe, ngaphandle kokuzizwa sodwa noma senqatshiwe. Ebusuku ungacabanga ngokuvala umnyango. Izofundisa umdlwane wakho ukuthi yilapho wonke umuntu eyolala khona. Uma umdlwane wakho ukhala, ngothando mbuyisele embhedeni wakhe, mnikeze isiphatho sasebusuku esihlukile kunaleso esedlule, mnike ukuphulula bese ubuyela embhedeni wakhe.
