-Delile
- Funda ukutolika ulimi lwezinja
- Ingabe kuhle ukugona inja?
- Khombisa uthando ngaphandle kokulicindezela
Siyabathanda aboboya bethu kangangokuba kwesinye isikhathi sifuna ukubanga njengoba singenza kunoma imuphi omunye umngane noma ilunga lomndeni, kubo lokhu akumnandi njengoba ungacabanga. Ngenkathi kithi kuyisenzo sothando, ezinjeni kuyisenzo esivimba futhi esibangele ingcindezi.
Uqaphele impela ukuthi inja yakho izamile ukubaleka noma yajika ikhanda lapho uzama ukuyigona. Ngalowo mzuzu kumele ngabe uzibuzile kungani inja yami ingathandi ukwangiwa? KwaPeritoAnimal sizokunikeza imininingwane oyidingayo ukuze wazi kangcono ngokuziphatha kwezilwane futhi sikubonise ukuthi ungayigona kanjani ngaphandle kokuzizwa ucindezelekile.
Funda ukutolika ulimi lwezinja
Ngoba azikwazi ukuxhumana ngomlomo, izinja zisebenzisa amasiginali okwehlisa umzimba, ukuma komzimba okusiza ukuthi zikhulume phambi kwezinye izinja, kepha nathi njengabanikazi okumele sikwazi ukuhumusha.
Uma ugona inja ingakhombisa izimpawu ezimbili noma ngaphezulu esingakubonisa yona ngezansi. Lapho benza noma iyiphi yalezi zinto, basho, ngendlela yabo, ukuthi abakuthandi ukugona. Inkinga ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ingaphikelela kakhulu ukuze ilume, ngaleso sizathu kungcono ukuhlonipha isikhala sakho uma kukhona kulezi zimpawu eziboniswayo:
- beka izindlebe phansi
- phendukisa isifonyo
- Gwema ukubuka kwakho
- zama ukufulathela
- jikelezisa umzimba wakho
- vala amehlo akho kancane
- khotha isifonyo njalo
- zama ukweqa
- kubhonga
- bonisa amazinyo
Ingabe kuhle ukugona inja?
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uStanley Coren ushicilele i-athikili ku- Psychology Today ebizwa ngokuthi Idatha ithi "Ungayifaki Inja!" ukusho lokho ngempumelelo, izinja azithandi lapho zigonwa. Eqinisweni, wethule uchungechunge lwezithombe ezingahleliwe ezingama-250 zabantu abanga izinja zabo kwathi ngo-82% kubo izinja zakhombisa uphawu lokweqa esasikhulume ngalo ekuqaleni.
UCoren uchaze ukuthi lezi zilwane zinokuphendula okushesha kakhulu nekhono lokusebenza, nokuthi zidinga ukukwazi ukubaleka lapho zizizwa zisengozini noma zikhona ekhoneni. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ubanga, bayazizwa ikhiyiwe futhi yanamathela, ungabi nalo leli khono lokubaleka uma kwenzeka okuthile. Ngakho-ke ukusabela kwabo kokuqala ukugijima futhi abakwazi ukukwenza, kujwayelekile ukuthi ezinye izinja zizame ukuluma ukuze zikhululeke.
Khombisa uthando ngaphandle kokulicindezela
UDkt ukunakekela inja yakho kungcono kakhulu ongakwenza qinisa isibopho sakho, kepha ukukwenza ngendlela engakubangeli ukwesaba, ingcindezi noma ukukhathazeka kungenye yezinkululeko ezinhlanu zenhlalakahle yezilwane.
Ungahlala umphulula ukuze aphumule, abhulashe uboya bakhe noma adlale naye ukumbonisa uthando lwakho. Landela la maphuzu ukuze uyeke ukuzibuza, kungani inja yami ingathandi ukwangiwa?
- Sondela kuye ngokuthula wenze iminyakazo emnene ukuze angaqapheli.
- Ake abone ukuthi ungena kanjani ukuze angasabi.
- Vumela iphunga lesandla sakho, ngentende yesandla sakho ivulekile.
- Hlala eceleni kwakho uthule.
- Zijwayeze ukuphatha izitho zomzimba ezahlukahlukene, njalo ngokuqhubekayo futhi umsize ngemiklomelo uma kunesidingo, ukuze ahlanganise izandla zakhe nokuthile okuhle.
- Beka kahle ingalo yakho okhalweni lwakho bese uyayiphathaphatha. Ungayihlikihla futhi ngomoya ophansi, ngaphandle kokuyikhama.
